January 27, 2017

I would add to Danielle's response by agreeing with don't buy into the negativity but add "don't contribute to it." By that I mean our thoughts create what we are seeing. So there are two steps to follow here if you really mean to make peaceful change. 1) Forgive all. By forgiveness, it doesn't mean put it away in the corner of your mind to bring up again at another time. Forgiveness means letting it go as if. it. never. happened. Can you do that to someone/something that has created any kind of bad feelings in you? If you're truly wanting to make positive change you need to forgive all family members, all friends, and yes even the man who you believe has created the rage. Forgive as if it never happened, let go of the negative energy of the past because you are creating it with your thoughts and it is only hurting yourself. You are taking poison expecting someone else to die of it.  2) Our thoughts create what we see. Think negative you will see negative, not the other way around. Think hate and rage and you will see hate and rage in the world. Think love you will see love. So. An example. Think loving thoughts about the family member who you are arguing with now and you will see love. Your thought creates the reality.  And it's not "I love you despite what you think that is different from me." It's only "I love you." Honor your journey and honor their journey that is different from yours. Honor means love. Love your journey and love their journey that is different from yours.